Three years ago today my fiancé asked me to marry him.
We met when I was a senior in high school. I knew he was the man I was going to marry within three months of dating him, although he probably thought I was crazy. Most all of our friends did. They thought we were too serious too fast, and maybe we were, but look at us now.
We had been together barely a year when we first looked at engagement rings. It was an accident really. We had originally gone to Kay's to look at necklaces, but while we were there I happened to glance at the wedding rings. And there it was. THE ring. My ring.
I asked the lady behind the counter if I could try it on.
As she was handing it over, the questions began.
"When are you getting married?"
"How long have you been together?"
"Would you like to apply for our Kay's card?"
Cam and I hadn't even seriously discussed marriage yet, what was I supposed to say to this woman? All I wanted to do was try on the ring. It glistened beautifully on my finger. I didn't want to take it off. I simply told her that we planned on getting married within the next year and thanked her for letting me try it on. Cam agreed that it was a beautiful ring, but that he wanted to keep looking before we decided on one. My heart was already sold, and apparently his was too.
Three days later he left early from work and bought my engagement ring. I guess he knew, just like I did, that he had chosen me as his wife well before we had discussed the idea of marriage.
The ring I desired lay tucked away in Cam's bedroom while I drug him to countless jewelry stores for the next year. I'm not sure why he waited so long to propose, just waiting for the right timing I suppose. A year and a half after Cam bought my engagement ring, he dug it out of the top of his closet and prepared for my proposal.
It was Valentine's day weekend, 2011. Cam had a night of surprises awaiting me. He wouldn't tell me where we were going or what we were doing, just that I was to show up at his house ready to go. When I arrived at his house he immediately ushered me to the truck and blindfolded me so I couldn't see where we were headed. About forty-five minutes later we arrived at P.F. Chang's. I was very excited because this was my favorite "special" place to eat, but when we got inside we found out there was a four hour wait. Naturally Cam hadn't thought to make reservations, so we had to make new dinner plans.
We ended up at my second favorite restaurant, Stix. We got a table with our favorite cook, Charlie, and several other couples. Halfway through our meal one of the men called attention to the restaurant, got down on one knee, and proposed. Cam said later that he had originally planned to do the same, but thought it would look like he was copying him and didn't want our big moment to be cliche.
After dinner we got back into the truck where he blindfolded me again. Cam drove me thirty minutes down the road to the park where we shared our first kiss and he originally asked me to be his girlfriend. Here he got out of the truck, ran around to my side, opened the door, and proclaimed that I could take off my blindfold as he knelt on one knee.
The excitement I felt on that day is nothing compared to the excitement I feel now as our wedding day approaches. Today I am more in love with this man than I ever thought I could be on that day three years ago.